Couples Strategy 101: The Filing Combination That Protects Your Lifetime Income

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Confused by Social Security?

If you’re married, deciding when to file is no longer an individual decision—it’s a household strategy. And the difference between “average” and “optimal” can exceed $150,000–$200,000 over your joint lifetimes.

The Higher Earner Should Usually Delay to 70

Why? Two reasons: It produces the highest guaranteed income stream in retirement, and it produces the highest survivor benefit.

The Lower Earner Often Files Earlier

The lower-earning spouse may file at 62 or FRA. This produces cash flow today while the higher benefit grows.

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The Most Expensive Mistake Couples Make

Filing both benefits early. This creates lower income now, lower income later, and dramatically reduced survivor protection.

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About Author

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Ray R. Harris

Ray R. Harris, RSSA®, partners with tax and legal professionals to provide specialized Social Security claiming analysis for high-net-worth clients aged 58–70. A former executive with an MBA and background in Finance, Ray mitigates liability for his partners by ensuring their clients optimize spousal benefits, tax efficiency, and lifetime income.

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