The One Thing Every Married Couple Should Decide Before Age 62

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Confused by Social Security?

There is one question every married couple must answer before they reach age 62: “Which spouse is the higher earner?” This seems simple—yet it determines almost everything.

The Higher Earner Should Almost Never File Early

Why? Because it reduces long-term income, survivor protection, and the value of delayed credits. Delaying protects the entire household.

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The Lower Earner’s Filing Age Is More Flexible

The lower earner may file early or at FRA. This creates early cash flow while the higher benefit grows.

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About Author

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Ray R. Harris

Ray R. Harris, RSSA®, partners with tax and legal professionals to provide specialized Social Security claiming analysis for high-net-worth clients aged 58–70. A former executive with an MBA and background in Finance, Ray mitigates liability for his partners by ensuring their clients optimize spousal benefits, tax efficiency, and lifetime income.

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